We were talking the other evening about the phrases one uses when trying to comfort someone who is in distress. I told him that in English we sometimes say, 'I've been there.' This was unclear to him at first- I've been where? But I explained that deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific loacation, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.' So sadness is a place?' Giovanni asked.' Sometimes people live there for years, ' I said. . Elizabeth Gilbert
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  1. Time: old cold time, old sorrow, settling down in layers like silt in a pond. - Margaret Atwood

  2. Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” Corrie ten Boom - Corrie Ten Boom

  3. Worry is a down payment on a problem you may never have. It doesn't empty tomorrow of its sorrow, just empties today of its strength. - Ziad K. Abdelnour

  4. Past tears are present strength. - George MacDonald

  5. That felt meaningful somehow, like the words on the pages ached for him to know their sorrow. - Stephanie Kuehn

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  1. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can...

  2. This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something.

  3. I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in love fast and without measuring risks. I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his...

  4. To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.

  5. To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balancedlife.

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